How DANGEROUS Are Strict Parents?

How DANGEROUS Are Strict Parents?


Hey there! Welcome to Life Noggin! Whether or not we like to admit it, our parents
have a big effect on us – and I don’t just mean genetically. How they raise us can influence everything
from our future social relationships to how much fruit we eat…yeah. It can also have a large impact on our brain
and development, which is why it’s important for parents to be involved in their kid’s
lives. But what happens when they are a little, well,
too involved? A common theme among overprotective parents
is to shield their kids from anything that could hurt them physically, emotionally, and
even academically., The parents that take this to the extreme are often referred to
as helicopter parents, and that sounds way cooler than it actually is. But their efforts don’t seem to have the
desired effect. A 2014 study on college students found that
those with over-controlling parents had significantly higher levels of depression and less satisfaction
with life due to their lack of autonomy. Generally, these parents want to help their
kids through life. But removing all stressful situations from
their children doesn’t seem to actually help them at all. Several studies have looked at how stress
affects brain and social development in rats. As opposed to chronic or sustained stress,
which stems from things like neglect and violence and is agreed upon to be harmful to children,
these studies tested how acute or short-term stress from activities like playing and competitions
affected the animals. For example, one study found that rats that
weren’t allowed to play-fight as juveniles grew up to have social problems like hyper-aggression
and anti-social behaviors as adults. Overall, these animal studies have shown that
brief, controlled amounts of stress during childhood can be beneficial for the development
of the brain, social skills, intelligence, and even the immune system., An authoritarian or strict parenting style
doesn’t produce the desired effect either. Take triangle bob for example, As opposed to becoming well-behaved and avoiding
dangers like drinking, drug use, and other RISKY ADULT BEHAVIORS , children of strict
parents tend to be more rebellious, suffer from low self-esteem and emotional problems
like depression, and often become bullies. Despite their popularity, the data shows that
corporal punishments like spanking also have a negative impact on children. Around the world, around 80 percent of parents
report using physical punishments like spanking to discipline their children.,, Which is scary
when you look into what effect spanking has on them. A 2016 meta-analysis combining the results
of 75 previous studies found that spanking results in more aggression, more antisocial
behavior, more mental health problems, lower cognitive abilities, lower self-esteem, and
more negative relationships with parents. The parenting style that has been found to
have the best impact on children is called authoritative parenting. It combines discipline and guidance with warmth
and support – something I think all of us can benefit from. Thank you for being a loving parent, Animator. I appreciate you. As much as science has told us about different
parenting styles, people have lots of different experiences, we wanna hear yours if you’re
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    Ruben Reis

    I think I am proof of how correct this is, while I did have an abusive father too (more emotional with me) my sisters had way more abuse from him both physically and mentally, the results are quite clear unfortunately…

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    p creeper Zhou

    I’m vengeful cuz of my parents they are very strict and my dad spanks me sometimes but my dad is fun so I like their NON strict side

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    Sam Is Ham

    Once my dad was using the belt (folded), it unfolded and the metal part hit my hand, my dad thought I was being dramatic for screaming and thought it was just a bruise, i got a hairline fracture and I can still feel the lump whenever I touch that part of my hand.

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    Hani Awazem

    Kids watch too much TV and use actors or singers or athletes as their role models. This creates brainwashed society and selfish individuals. People strayed from religion which left emptiness inside their souls and the Media encourages that to devid people so that can be easily controlled. Kids need to know to respect their parents and listen to them and care for each other and appreciate what they have and be thankful.

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    Evil Paragon 4

    I never see studies that show the effects of both positive and negative reinforcement.

    All the studies are like "We asked people and a lot of people said they hit their kids, shocking! We then looked at the results of a few families who only hit their kids and we had these terrible results!"

    A majority of parents however, don't just hit their kids, they reward with praise, treats, events like going to the movies, etc. I haven't seen any studies that show the effects of kids who receive both.

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    Ana Rios

    my life with a chill parent:

    only gets phone taken away when β€œgrounded”

    only has to clean room and kitchen

    can hit my brothers without them hitting me

    Cons:

    My parents expect a lot of from me because all my siblings are either assholes or dumbasses

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    Element

    #LifeNoggin I got two questions for u
    Does poison get expired if so the if poison gets expired does it get more poisonus or less poisonus KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

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    Autorium

    I have a question have you seen any stars lately? I haven't seen one since i was 8 and now im 13 Life Noggin why can't i or we see stars anymore?

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    ꧁꧁ lilac ꧂꧂

    Me: has super strict parents

    Me: sees video

    rushes to parents to make them see the video

    Parents: after watching video

    Me: gets bruises all over

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    Roberto

    Ok so this is my story

    My parents is strict especially my dad because hes a trained maritime engineer so discipline is in his mind.. when we were kids together with my siblings when we do stupid things or fight each other he do hit us with broomstick,belt,slipper and the most painfull is the whip.. yes a whip.. (btw were from philippines so its part from asia were parents hit theyre kids) he hit us that but not that hard.. the time i get older (currently 21) i once talked to my mom that why did dad hit us with such weapons Haha.. she said that my granddad(fathers side dad) hit theyre sons and daughters brutally because triggered.. and now i understand my dad why did he do those but sometimes he is caring like a motherly figure one.. but more of a barbaric way.. i do feel depress and unsatisfied in my life.. i do feel stress about them until now but i still love them tho.. but thanks to them im here now

    Sorry for bad english im sleepy if you have any question about my story of having strict asian parents feel free to ask ty

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    Julioelflaco

    My mom hits me with belt, flip flops, hand, towel, stick, cable, a wooden spoon or whatever she gets on the middle and it works lmao

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    Magical Cakes

    Well, every SINGLE TIME I say something semi-personal or barely related to my life and I tell my parents about it they are like, WHY DID YOU DO THAT, and NOW PEOPLE CAN FIGURE OUT blah blah blah, yeah I know what cyber security is and I NEVER, and I mean NEVER, say something directly related to my life online

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    AJ12Gamer

    Tell that to Asian parents when their kid becomes a lawyer, doctor, or account.

    Tell their kids also who support it as they are having financial freedom at a early age.

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    Itz KyleePlayz

    My parents are the best kind of parents :)!
    They have all the positive things and they made me very independentl! πŸ™‚

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    Dan Litt

    My parents were brilliant; the perfect mix of guidance, support and sensible control. But I'm still stuck under the shadow of a teacher who bullied, excluded and humiliated me for two years in primary school because she didn't believe Tourettes syndrome and aspergers were real. It turned school into a traumatic place even after I'd left and joined secondary school and I hated it until the day I left and I'm still dealing with depression and anxiety decades later.

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    KCORLIND Bvei

    Well my parent said to not conpare my self with others but they always compare me to my cousin and they always beat me up

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    struestorystudios

    Yeah being a parent is not easy, in most cases parents just want the best for their children. Ill remember this video to the day i become a parent

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    shantanu chaudhary

    My exprience of strict parenting
    *told me since childhood that friends can not be trusted
    *Scolds me for not being social
    *don't appload when I score high in a practice test
    *make it a big issue when I don't score high

    *Mother continously said parents are never wrong , yet proved my Maternal grandmoter wrong several times
    *cuts off conversation whenever I do something wrong ,

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    Slimy Scumbag

    Me: fails math test
    Dad: Its those violent video games you play
    (Tf2 lol, if they wanna talk violent they should see Kortal Mombat).

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    Canned Bread The Legendary Outlaw

    My mom when I'm enjoying myself : why are you so happy?don't you have studying to do?

    My mom when I'm studying : why do you look so damn gloomy?cheer up!

    Me: πŸ‘€

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    My Own Wrld

    Lol my dad is so strict to the point where he changed the WiFi password and didn’t tell me. But right now I’m using my cellular

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    Feline Within

    The only solution is to move out and leave a letter filled with hate or call security services and put whoever made your life hell in a nursing home.

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    caitlin calles

    My parents only spanked when we did something terrible and they explained why what we did is wrong. Sometimes there was a "cut it out, I don't have time to deal with tantrums" warning tap. We all turned out ok. One thing that bugs is how we always are talking about or sometimes my mom gets emotional and stressed( never did anything wrong, just hard to deal with). My parents are the best

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    Mei Grace

    My parents were so strict they put a lock on all the fridges, freezers, and cabinets so I could only eat 2 times a day. They also tried brainwashing techniques for me to be a submissive housewife and I called the cops on them and I'm now living with my aunt and she's trying to get custody over me.

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    Fallingsnow46

    I was wondering if you can do a video talking about nose blindness and what causes them. I have it and I just want to know more about it.

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    Random Artist

    dad: you can do nothing right, all you do is playing video games!
    me: dad, I kinda draw and animating as a "part time job"
    dad: that's just an excuse, go to your room!
    me: dad, I don't have a room
    dad: that's it, no phone for a month!
    me: confused

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    KZ Warrior

    Me: TOUCHES my phone.
    My parents:GIVE IT HERE, YOU'RE BANNED FROM USING IT.
    Also my parents: always on phone 24/7 laughing and chatting with their friends.

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    Linda Woody

    I hate getting a spanking which slows cognative ability . I tried to teach my parents that spanking slows cognitive development but they dont believe me

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